As a preface to this testimony, we knew Minka for several years. She was active to close to the end of her life. Minka reminds us of Dorcas in the Book of Acts, who was known for her good deeds. She was remarkable for her age in managing a fourplex, working in the yard, digging holes for plants, flying several times a year to conferences and to see her additional family, washing her neighbor’s car, fixing luncheons for 15 to 20 women in her home, baby sitting her elementary and junior-high-age great-grandchildren, cooking holiday dinners, making candy, baking cookies (also giving us a plateful), helping with wrapping and boxing cookies and candy for troops overseas, teaching elementary children the Bible after school, besides hosting many prayer meetings in her home, interceding for others at the John G. Lake Healing Rooms, saving women from aborting their babies, and spending much time in private prayer. We thank God for all the prayers that went up to the Lord on our behalf. Minka's grandaughter, Cathy LaGrow, wrote a book about Minka's life called "The Waiting," published by Tyndale in 2014. Minka was able to read the original manuscript, but not the published book, as she passed away on June 16, 2014, at the age of 102.
The following is an astounding testimony by Minka and shows the loving hand of God who is such a kind and personal Lord and the blessings that come upon those who walk humbly before Him:
At 94 my secret has become a blessing
by Minka deJong
God works in mysterious ways His wonders to perform. Who can fathom the depth of His wisdom or His love as He works all things out according to His purposes and our good.
I have been given the opportunity to scan my life of 94 years because of something that happened recently. Can we know the destiny of lives, families, cities and nations? Twhe Bible states that the prayers of a righteous man avails much and to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all other things shall be added unto you.
I pondered those words in my heart and mind as my life took a dramatic turn in July, 2006.
I was born of pure Dutch ancestors who were born and raised in Holland, then immigrated to America with one son and my mother being pregnant with me. My father worked on a dairy farm; and when I was 1-1/2 years old, my sister was born. She was nine days old when my father drowned in a lake.
With three babies, my mother, who had not as yet mastered the English language, but did speak German as well as her native Dutch, went to work for an elderly German farmer. As children we knew what it was to work before and after school, from sun-up to sun-down. We hauled water, wood, and coal because those were the days of no running water, electricity, or gas in homes. We picked potatoes, shocked wheat, and corn, or whatever was planted that year.
In addition, we walked 1-1/2 to 1/3/4 miles one way to school or to pick up mail in the opposite direction. There were no friends to play with outside of school. There was no time.
When I was 14-1/2, the man my mother worked for retired and she married another Dutchman. Together, they started a dairy farm. Not only did he gain a wife, but three well-trained farmhands as well, who were good at milking cows. My brother lasted till he was 17, then joined the Navy.
When we graduated from the 8th grade at our country schoolhouse, we were told High School was for city kids who had nothing else to do. It was out of the question for us--there was too much work to do.
At 16-years of age, my mother sent me to a sewing class a woman was teaching at her home. I do not recollect the reason, but one day the sewing class had a picnic by the lake. While there, another girl and I went for a walk to a skating rink. Later, going back to the group, walking amongst the trees, we were raped by two men. We had never seen them, didn't know them, nor ever saw them again.
I was traumatized, bewildered, and scared and could never mention this to my mother as we never ever talked about such things. I had never, even seen a pregnant woman. Long dresses and aprons covered pregnancy. Women continued to work hard in those days, days without any of our modern “push-button” appliances.
I do not remember all the details that revealed my pregnancy. My mother went to our German Lutheran pastor and together they determined the course I was to take: Check into a Lutheran Home and Adoption Agency for girls. I had never been away from home or from my mother and I was at the mercy of their decision.
I grew up overnight. Where was I going? What did life hold for me?
Fortunately, this Home was filled with love, prayers, and kindness--the kind you could see, touch and feel. The lady in charge talked with me, explained things, reasoned with me, gave me a choice, yet lovingly explained the advantages of adoption and life for myself as a young woman. I made a painful decision.
When my baby daughter was one month old, I named her. Then she was given to a Norwegian Lutheran Pastor/Evangelist and his wife for adoption.
I went on with my life, keeping in touch with the Agency for my daughter's growth and welfare. They acknowledged every letter, some with news, if they heard, some without. But she never left my heart or life, and every year on her birthday I wondered where and how she was.
On May 22, 2006, I woke up and asked the Lord if He could possibly just let me see her. If I could, I made a solemn promise I would never, ever bother her or her family. Then I dismissed the thought and went about the affairs of the day.
The following July 2nd, my phone rang and a message was left on my recorder. A women's voice was trying to locate me. She said mine was the last number she was given to call. A while later the phone rang again and a man's voice asked me if I was Minka. I said, "Speaking."
It was my daughter's son! He had spent six months trying to get records released through the courts to find his mother's biological mother. He was calling a list of people he had gathered with identical names to mine, and mine was the last number.
After a few questions on both sides, he put his mother--my very own daughter--on the phone. It was a nostalgic moment to hear her voice, even though she was now a grown, 77-year-old woman. Her adopted parents had given her a new name. They were a couple, I learned, who had two sons and desperately wanted a little girl. Her father was a godly, praying man known as Peder the Rock, the man of prayer.
My daughter told me she has six children, four boys and two girls. One son is a Colonel and an Astronaut, who manned four flights into space. He's married and has three children. His wife is a fitness instructor.
A second son is a Lieutenant Colonel, a graduate from West Point, married to a teacher. He has two children. The son, following in his father's footsteps, is a 3rd-year cadet. A daughter is in college, studying to become a teacher, like her mother.
A third son is a basketball and football coach at a school in Wisconsin. He's also married to a teacher. They have two boys.
A fourth son lives in Texas and works for Boeing and NASA. He's a subcontractor for Boeing. They are in charge of building the International Space Station. He, himself, is in charge of one of those pieces of hardware that is going to be installed on the station sometime in 2007. It provides structure for the station as well as power production to keep the astronauts alive. His wife is assistant principal as well as a teacher in her school.
She also teaches a class at the local university as an adjunct professor.
The two daughters of my daughter are also teachers. The oldest did not pursue teaching, but married a man who had three little children to raise. The youngest daughter does teach. She's married, has no children, and lives in Illinois. She continues to spend summer vacation pursuing college courses to enlighten her students to a fast-changing world with new challenges.
After our conversation I realized the power of prayer and that I, too, had been the recipient of my daughter's adopted father's prayers for all those years.
When I grew up and left the farm, I married and had two children, a son and a daughter. After a long battle with illness, my husband finally succumbed to cancer. Through all this I found comfort in the Lord. My life was a challenge and hampered by lack of education. In spite of this I was put in various managerial positions, no matter what I undertook. I worked for over eighteen years for a school district and retired at age 66. After a few years, I got a little granddaughter to raise and educate so went back to work at a local K-Mart as a cashier for thirteen additional years. At age 87, I finally retired again. As I look back, I see His guidance and direction, leading me to a higher spiritual realm, a higher spiritual maturity for “such a time as this.”
Then, recently, my precious grandson who tracked me down and called me--the Lieutenant Colonel--and his lovely wife brought my beautiful daughter to see me. What a precious time we had. I felt she just came home for a visit, for she had never left my heart. My other daughter and her son came from Oregon to help unite the family. Our family was complete, with the exception of my son who had passed away in 2000. But his daughter came instead.
Later, my other daughter said, "Mom, I was praying, too. I wanted to meet my sister." When she was growing up, she was the only one I had revealed to what had happened to me so long ago.
Does the Lord watch over us? Does the Lord answer prayer? Indeed, He does. I have been blessed with a wonderful family, friends, and life in general. I have a feeling there are still more chapters to be added to this story. May God richly bless everyone who thinks there is no hope for them. God always makes a way when you think there is no way.
I speak especially to those who seek an abortion. May you seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all other things shall be added to you.
Imagine what would have happened if this rape had occurred to me today? I probably would have been advised to have an abortion. My daughter would not have been born and the world would never have known the wonderful and productive family that resulted from her birth--a family the world can be proud of.
I am blessed beyond measure. To God be the glory and to all others who had a part of my growing up in Him, held in His hand--grafted into His plan.
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